Ben is not a planner. He flies by the seat of his pants and he kept in his nature with his proposal. Ben and I have been dating for over 6 years and I had been waiting for the day he would ask. He and I had been watching a movie and once it was over, he felt like the moment was right and he asked me. I, of course, thought he was playing a mean joke on me and didn't believe him at first. I said yes but kept asking if he was kidding. He finally told me he was serious and if I kept asking he was going to take it back (joking of course). So here we are, months later and planning a wedding for June 18, 2011.